Are we really independent ???

We often talk about women empowerment, independency , safety measures and many more....
A girl brutally raped just because she was  coming  from office @ 8 pm.... ,, there was an acid attack on a girl just because her sister said no to a freaky guy......,,she was being punished and deprived from studies just because she came college wearing denims,,, she was being harassed ,,,she is being called with so many wow sounding words....Tota,,Patakha,,Maal,,saman.....eeuu... Guys have you ever thought by the perspective of girls...

Again in the budget thousand crores rupee fund sanctioned for ****** fund,,, and god knows what would gonna happen to that....
Government should stop putting bans on the so called documentary instead should take steps to punish these heinous criminals....
That rash auto driver who comments on my safe driving just because i am a girl,,,  
People use to judge us by the gender and our looks in spite of our hard work and dedication...

We girls are not meant to be judged by their beauty ,,,they are human beings and equally deserve all the rights ...
*We are daughters,,sisters,,mothers,,friends,, wives,,daughter - in - laws....
* Patient listeners,,,  true companions ,,, strength,,,support,,,and much more !!!


We will get the independence once we could walk freely on the roads at night,,, once we will be judged by our capabilities,,, by our determination & dedication...

Girls...Open the closed windows,,,just speak your heart loud,,listen to your heart,,, do whatever you want to, but don't stay quiet,,, open up your wings and fly so high,,,just love the girl in You !!!
step forward and make your own ways,,,just let the sun rise in you ....love the girl in you !!!

I had an arrange marriage !! It has got fixed almost 70% in the first meeting....
After many arrangements and rituals ,,finally the most awaited day has come...Our wedding Day!!
With so many happy smiling photographs with bride and groom luking lovingly in each others eyes,,,so many relatives flaunting their goddy,,,expensive attires giving poses to the camera !!

Before being that bride, i was a daughter of my parents only,,,a loving sister  of my cute li'll brothers and sisters,,,roaming freely here and there....
Before the wedding day i packed my stuff with sooooo many things and prepared to move to my husband's house....Suddenly i felt my life being turned up & down....while packing ma stuff,,i felt like keeping all my possessions....to come along with  me...but i felt tears rolling down my cheeks and had a inner voice that my parents would feel lonely,,so i decided to keep them at the same place only....so as whenever they miss me, they can go there and can have my presence...

Like most girls,i grew up to be an independent woman helping my mother and accompany her for shopping,,buying veggies....sharing moments,, happiness,,,sorrows,,,tears...
I still remember the day when watching a movie with ma mommy...i broke down into tears that these beautiful moments  i may never cherish again...miss u Mumma.......

The shopping fever and arrangements drained me physically...last night in my house i was staring the ceiling ,,gosh this would me last nyt in my room...now i have to shift in some other family,,,,other set of friends ,,relatives....for the whole  life...this thought had choken me..this part of me came with an expiry value.... :(
On my wedding day i had loads of thoughts and tensions roaming in my mind ,,in between all the lights,,cameras,,,decoration,,,delicious dine,,,music ,,,fun,,,dhol,,,dance,,,the girl inside me was thinking about the few hours that would gonna change my life forever and most importantly,,,,this is My MAN !!!....and further with all anticipations, expectations, tensions, hopes and dreams, i began my new lyf promising to be the best wife,,best daughter -in - Law,,best sister and a lot more...but there was one silent promise to be the best daughter of my parents even in this new phase of my lyf. suddenly i had a look to my parents ,,they ate nothing for the whole day as they needed to do "Kanyadan",,,

Than it was the ceremony to bid Gud bye,,,"Bidai",,i stepped out of the protective periphery of my home, trying to be the smiling bride...

Home sickness had the different flavour after wedding from that of hostel days where i cud wait for my vaccations to go home and had fun with my family and friends...

But no matter how loving family you get,,,how one can forget that morning parantha with butter on it...when i used to say mumma,,bhukh lagi he....

No matter how far the daughter is from her parents,,, she is their li'll daughter first and than a wife and a daughter-in -law...
The GIRL in me will always be that innocent daughter who left her home,,,her parents ,,,her everything behind to begin this new phase....
And the best part is,,,this girl has got the bestest husband <3 <3<3.